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Relationship Help With EFT - Changing Others The EFT Proxy ProtocolThe EFT Proxy Protocol (also known as Surrogate Tapping) is to tap for or on behalf of someone else.
EFT By Proxy is very simple and instead of saying in the set up, “I am afraid of spiders,” we simply say, “Bob is afraid of spiders,” if we're proxy tapping on behalf of Bob. The EFT Proxy Protocol has a dual action. The first is simple and direct; when we tap on behalf of someone or something we are worried about for whatever reason, of course we ourselves receive stress relief and improve our own energy flow. The second action is something you will only find in energy work; namely that the target of your EFT Proxy treatment will change as well. We are much more connected on the energy levels than when we are walking around all separate from each other in physicality. In EFT Proxy tapping, we are using these connections to make changes and improve the flow of energy. There are many times and places where proxy tapping is an excellent path to take. From parents who worry about their children, to spouses who want to tap on something in their partners that upsets them; from grandparents tapping for the grandchildren far away to customers proxy tapping a company that is not treating them right; there are a thousand and one uses for this protocol. A very interesting application of the EFT Proxy Protocol is to tap for past aspects and future aspects of the self. Instead of saying, “When I was a baby, my mother abandoned me,” we can proxy tap the past aspect (the baby that once was but isn't here any longer) by tapping on “the abandoned baby.” This works in effect by sending energy to those systems which still have “abandoned baby problems” today and targets the EFT treatment correctly. It also makes it much easier to be compassionate and hold a real will to help the past aspects. We can also use proxy tapping for future aspects, for example “the aspect of me who will have to give that scary presentation next Friday.” We can tune in to the future aspect and tap for what will be bothering them, for example, “The aspect will be terrified to forget his words,” as the set up with, “forgetting words” as the reminder phrase. Proxy Tapping is a very important and beneficial part of EFT energy work that has many uses and will always make you, the one who is doing the Proxy Tapping, feel much better. Changing Other People In RelationshipsYou can create set ups to tap EFT in order to change other people in many different ways. The first is to tap on things you don't like about the person, for example, "Peter gets too wound up," or "Mary always forgets my birthday," or "Shawna flirts too much with other men." Simply make a list of what you want to change and tap it until you can feel in your own body that a change has taken place. You can also use EFT Proxy to heal a person. For example, you can tap on, "John needs to de-stress," or "Tori needs more self esteem," or "Rob needs to heal from his experiences with his ex-wife." An interesting application is to change a person's mind about you. "Josh thinks I'm an idiot," or "Renee only thinks of me as a friend," or "Denise doesn't like me anymore." Finally, you can proxy tap for whole groups of people, such as your family, or your gang, your block, the commitee, the school class etc. This can be used to change a reputation, your standing in a group or how they perceive you and react towards you. EFT is a fascinating thing and it gets better with practice. Start tapping and find out what you can do to change other people with pure modern energy work.
Proxy Article Copyright 2012 Dr Silvia Hartmann, Author "Energy EFT - Energize Your Life!"
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