by Dr Silvia Hartmann
The Healing Gift of Healing is a WONDERFUL pattern to bring The Healing
Gift of healing to others - not just to other people, not just distance healing,
but also for world healing, earth healing and animal healing; environmental
energy healing and much, much more.
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How To Give The Gift Of Healing |
Healing Relationships |
Self Healing |
World Healing |
Mirror Healing |
Healing Strangers |
Healing Animals |
Healing Spirits |
Healing Gift Story |
Healing Gift Information
Welcome to The Healing Gift Of Healing – an absolutely FANTASTIC healing
technique that is both ancient as well as modern, with a thousand and one uses,
that can make the world a different place for you, for the people you love, for
the people you don’t love, and for those who you haven’t even met yet.
It may be that the act of giving The Healing Gift can make changes at a far
wider level too; as more and more minds become involved in this wonderful
process, we might well have the opportunity to permanently influence matters on
a profound plane of reality.
Having worked professionally with Energy Therapies for many years, I am very
aware that we receive far more information and insight about the nature of
reality around us than we could consciously ever understand, or evaluate, or
even respond to.
Much of this information is invisible – but you can still feel it and it
certainly has the power to make you happy and bright, or to bring you down; it
is this information or knowledge that makes the hair on your neck rise on
entering specific buildings; that gives you a strange feeling in the pit of your
stomach before the telephone has even rang, and that accounts for “gut level
responses” to people, situations, proposals and ideas.
When you are engaged with another in any kind of healing relationship, and
this could be both as a professional therapist or just listening to a friend who
is in trouble and you are trying to help them somehow, both you and I have the
power to help in a most profound way – if only we knew how to transfer our
invisible and unspoken understandings into action in some way.
The Healing Gift is the bridge over which your deep and unspoken
understanding and your knowing about how to help can travel to the other person.
It is easy to give, any human alive can do this – children are especially good
at it - and you will know that a change has occurred when you have given The
Healing Gift.
What exactly happens when you give The Healing Gift is a mystery. It has been
suggested that you could be making a healing adjustment to the other’s energy
system, or maybe that you adjust the flow of the meridians through their bodies,
or perhaps align a chakra or two in just the right way. I’m not sure what
happens, only that something happens, that it feels wonderful and right, and
that it creates positive change both for the giver and for the receiver.
I invite you to try it for yourself. The Healing Gift is a simple thing yet
endlessly applicable in its very simplicity and profoundly useful and helpful in
many situations.
Silvia Hartmann
July 2000
How To Give The Healing Gift
Very simply, we are going to ask for a metaphorical representation of our
unique contribution to the person to whom we are going to give The Healing Gift.
The name metaphor means a container – and in the case of The Healing Gift,
our metaphor will “contain” whatever the person needs from us at this precise
moment in time and space. It could be an understanding, a special vibration of
love, something that might remove a certain negative energy, something that
could unblock something, or provide nourishment in some way, support, an
embrace, a space of silence or perhaps sanctuary or sustenance.
We do not need to consciously understand what it is that we are giving; and I
am saying “consciously understand” because when you have given The Healing Gift,
you will have a different kind of understanding – you will know that it was the
right thing to give, because it “feels right”. You might not be able to explain
in words how it was the right thing – but then, metaphor and intuition are from
the unspeakable realms, where what exists is beyond words, and that’s just fine.
So, for a moment, consider a person to whom you might like to give The
Healing Gift.
Allow yourself to consider them in all ways, and beyond the face they may be
wearing, beyond their social status and clothes, beyond their problems and
successes, beyond any love or jealousy you might have for them.
Consider them and then ask yourself this question:
At this time, at this moment,
I ask what gift of healing
I can give to this person.
Relax and let an idea or image bubble up in your mind. This image, sound,
feeling or idea is the container that will carry your unique healing gift to the
other.
Here are some examples of gifts that appeared when the question was asked:
- a small blue and red bird
- a multi coloured spiral
- a small tree in a flower pot
- a pair of wings
- a huge field of green grass
- a luminous white dove
- a warm blue cloak to wrap around your shoulders
- the sound of ocean
- what looked like a beach ball at first and turned out to be Planet
Earth.
Now, take your time to consider the person and find a gift for them. Don’t
argue with your choice and accept whatever springs to mind; your conscious mind
doesn’t know enough to know what would be the perfect gift but your unconscious
mind does, and that is the place from where the metaphor arises.
Most people more than readily can think of something. Should your mind go
blank, you can either leave the request to keep working on it and send it to you
as a “flash of insight” at any time within the next few days; or you may
consider which colour might be good for this person, and then just imagine a
gift box with a matching ribbon on top in that colour and trust that your
perfect gift will be inside that box.
Now, imagine the person and imagine offering The Healing Gift to them. This
part of the pattern creates the transfer from you to them and represents your
intention to be of help.
That is all you have to do. From then on, whatever happens next, will happen
under its own processes as the interaction unfolds and the changes are made.
Some things you might notice or come across when you give The Healing Gift
are as follows:
- Sometimes when you think of the person, they
appear very different to what they normally look like – they may appear
older, younger, may be dressed differently than in “real life”, or may be
expressing emotions through their body postures that you are not normally
aware of. This is perfectly normal and it is a sign that you are seeing who
they really are.
- Often, you might experience strong emotions
yourself when The Healing Gift has come to your mind. Again, this is in a
way the correct reaction to this process and it tells you that it is
working. Emotions and energetic states are inextricably linked in a single
system.
- So far, every person who was offered a healing
gift received it most gratefully – some with tears, some with astonishment
and gratitude and some with childlike delight. It is conceivable however
that a gift might be rejected. Should this happen, you could ask what they
would prefer to have from you instead – there is something that is
absolutely unique to you for them, that they cannot get from anyone or
anywhere else. If you feel you can fill the request, go ahead; but you also
have the right to not fill it if it seems inappropriate or feels less than
good to you.
- Pay attention to your self when sending The
Healing Gift. It is often as profound an experience to give it as it is to
receive it.
- It is not necessary to tell people about The
Healing Gift, although with good friends it adds another dimension to the
process and if you can discuss the nature of these gifts, gain tremendous
insights into many things.
- You can give The Healing Gift just while talking
to someone and without them knowing anything about it. Briefly focus on a
place beyond their physical body, and you may be able to imagine an astral
copy of the person to whom you will give The Healing Gift. When you do this,
pay attention to how the other person responds when The Healing Gift is
given. Some people lose their train of thought, some look over their
shoulder; they are aware that something has happened which, indeed, it has.
Note also how after a giving of The Healing Gift the nature of the whole
interaction seems to change for the better.
- Remember that The Healing Gift represents an
energetic exchange, in spite of the often seemingly simple or mundane
metaphorical object that carries your intention across. Energetic exchanges
are felt not heard or measured with a Geiger counter; pay close attention to
your feelings and your emotions when give The Healing Gift because that is
how you will know that you have done something important.
The original pattern of The Healing Gift was developed for healers and
therapists who were suffering from extreme overwhelm when faced with deeply
unhappy, physically and mentally scarred people who were suffering from a
lifetime of neglect, terrible trauma and lovelessness.
The Healing Gift creates a straightforward method for their unique healing
energies and intentions to go the right places for that individual, and most
importantly, helped them to no longer feel overwhelmed and helpless. The
negative emotions of helplessness and conscious overwhelm disappear when you use
The Healing Gift to help others, and in so doing, are a gift to you.
Interestingly, sometimes it happens that a person to whom you have given The
Healing Gift, will offer one in return to you – and I don’t mean people who you
have told about having sent them a gift and who will nearly always reciprocate
likewise automatically, but those you imagined offering a gift to.
Needless to say, please receive it in gratitude. As we have said before, this
is an energetic exchange and energy needs to flow freely both from you to them,
and from them to you.
You can also give yourself a gift in the same way as you would to another
person.
This is an interesting exercise on many levels and it is intrinsically very
different from other people’s gifts as it will be your own energy you are using
instead of a different flavour which comes from another person.
You may consider gifts for “past selves” or your inner child – perhaps there
was a time in your life that was very traumatic, or you “used to be a different
person” which usually means, a worse person. To give those parts of yourself
gifts can help to re-align them, ease their suffering and to help them grow and
heal. It is possible that there are certain “past you’s” that cannot be healed
by anyone other than you yourself.
As this is a spiritual healing pattern from the quantum realms, you might
like to ask for a healing gift from a future self to come to you, right now.
To your future self, you ARE still a child within ...
As it is the case that people pop up in our lives in order to be a mirror to
us and our own problems, and as it is also the case that my sister-in-law always
gives me presents she would liked to have received, you might consider when you
have given a few gifts to your loved ones, which one of those gifts you would
like to have received as well, and give yourself the same one, too.
As my intuition increases, I used to find it harder and harder to travel on
public transport or be in crowded places, simply because of the general
unhappiness, loneliness and suffering that was emanating from the people around
me.
For example, I saw an Indian lady with many heavy bags at a train station.
Although I helped her carry the bags onto the train, there was so much sadness
and physical suffering around her like a dark grey fog that she hardly seemed to
notice me. I gave her a tropical garden, and she took a deep, deep breath and
seemed to become alive and aware of her surroundings.
I then went through all the passengers of the train compartment, one by one
and felt myself getting lighter and more comfortable with each gift given and
hungrily received.
I received a number of gifts in return also and left the train full of energy
and brighter than I had been in years.
What I believe is that The Healing Gift is a stepping stone, a learning
process that will allow us to do this type of work automatically and without us
having to even give attention to it once we are fully familiar with its
workings.
I would invite you to try it for yourself, and note what difference it makes
to you and your individual dealings with strangers and passers by.
Animals (wild animals and domesticated animals) are extremely aware of
energetic shifts of all kinds, and they too can receive The Healing Gift.
Further, their feedback to receiving The Healing Gift is immediate and clearly
visible in their physiology, their body postures and their subsequent behaviour.
Here are a few examples of healing gifts for animals:
- a gift bow (for a dog which later turned out to have been “an unwanted
gift”);
- a foal (for a mare who was highly strung – as soon as the owner thought
of the foal the mare stopped dead, relaxed right out and stood very quietly,
with her head drooping);
- a blue green blanket (for a dog who then came into the room for “no good
reason” lay down, at full stretch, exactly in the spot the blanket “had
appeared” to the owner).
If you remember, the original gift pattern was designed to help with
overwhelm.
What can be more overwhelming than global healing issues such as world
pollution, world hunger, the suffering of all the children, all the animals,
global warming, wars and famines, and so forth?
What causes depression and overwhelm is the thought “There is nothing I can
do”.
With The Healing Gift, there is something you can do now
beside recycling and donating to charity, and I believe that every one of us who
addresses such issues at the energetic level in this way actually does make a
difference.
As The Healing Gift pattern does not require much meditation, time or effort
other than conscious volition to do it now it is a perfect beginning to start to
use our abilities to make changes at the energetic level on healing global
issues too.
What gift of healing will you give to the world today? To The Children? To
Humanity? Whatever you have to contribute, know that it is uniquely yours to
contribute – no-one else in the world can give this gift the way you do – and
that it will make a difference.
This is a fascinating thing indeed and a
different take on the topic of spiritual healing - healing spirits.
In general, this can refer to "the spirit of the land" for example - the
spirit of the land can be sad and disturbed, broken or raped; but it can also
refer to actually healing spirits as in ghosts
Here are some stories received about using The Healing Gift in practise. I
would very much like to hear your experience with The Healing Gift, too. Please
mail me at the address at the end of this article to contribute.
“A friend came to visit me who is in a very unhappy relationship. I listened
to her for a long while but began to feel more and more uncomfortable in the
face of her anger and couldn’t think of what to do other than to just go along
with it and hope she’d tire of it soon. I remembered The Healing Gift from the
newslist, and focussed on what I could be giving her. As soon as I thought of
it, a white dove appeared before me. It was carrying a long flowy red ribbon in
its beak, and fluttered in midair. I stared in awe. After I got over my
surprise, I *gave* it to my friend, mentally released it to her. Instantly, she
stopped talking. The entire mood of the room calmed, and she tied up a few
loose ends and left, calm and confident.”
“This metaphorical gift giving solves a huge dilemma I have had weighing on
my heart. I recently spent time with some very old friends and was quite
disturbed by the way they are treating their children, and by their troubled 13
year old son. These are not people I can confront or help right now, and their
kids live across the country from me so I can't establish a relationship and
help that way. But I CAN go inside myself everytime I think of it, and send
whatever seems appropriate at that moment. It has been a wonderful relief to
me.”
“I heard that a dear friends father had died suddenly. I wanted to do/say
something to help but was in a spin, couldn't find the right words, so I settled
myself down and pictured my friend and his father, immediately I knew that the
'gift' was a very special poem about laughter. Later on I was tapping for my
friend but it just didn't feel
right, I couldn't find the right thing to tap on....until your mail arrived. It
was so obvious I couldn't see it. Now I know that the greatest gift that I can
energetically send at this time is laughter. Thank you for putting into words
what I knew but couldn't see.”
“I have been troubled by feeling very negative – hateful – towards a certain
person recently. When I got the message about The Healing Gift, it occurred to
me to try it on that person to see if it would make any difference. Immediately,
a huge black raven sprang to mind. I was worried that it might be something bad
and hesitated, but it looked very beautiful and powerful so I decided to trust
my unconscious mind and send it anyway. I felt better immediately as I “saw” the
raven flying away all purposefully and actually found it hard to get back those
feelings of negativity about the person. Later, someone told me this: “The raven
on the Shamanic Medicine Wheel is the guardian of in absentia healing and it's
medicine is considered needed to bridge the Void, to reach the collective
unknown.” I had no idea of that but WOW. What a gift – and just what that person
must have needed. And what I needed to do to regain balance in my mind.”
“Today, a friend stopped by. He was tripping out, exploding with ideas, and I
began to feel overwhelmed with his energy. I thought of The Healing Gift, and a
small speckled egg appeared in front of me. It was a lovely greenish bluish
greyish color, with brownish spots. I just stared at it for a moment, sort of
cherishing it. Then I released it to him. I was watching his face as I gave him
this egg. He stopped in mid word and just stared at me, and asked me what he'd
been saying. He said, "Something just happened. everything is different." so I
told him about the egg. he teased me about having *egged* him. Then he said
that the sensation he was experiencing was a sort of encapsulation. about a half
hour later, he was again escalating his thought process, and my attention
drifted back to the egg. I replayed it in my mind, and as I did so, he again
stopped, looked at me, and asked if I'd egged him again. I hadn't meant to! We
laughed about it. Now I can't wait to use this with my kids, and my ex when he
stops by & begins to attack me. This is truly the simplest thing I've ever done,
and the results are remarkable.”
“I was in this doctor’s office with a replacement doctor because the regular
one was on holiday. This was a woman of about 50. She spent the first ten
minutes apologising to me that she wasn’t the real doctor and kept asking me if
I wanted to wait until the "real" doctor was back again. I thought of The
Healing Gift and what came to mind was a single red rose. Whilst she was still
apologising, I imagined a ghost shape of me giving the rose to a ghost shape of
her, it took it and said quite loudly in a tearful voice, “No-one has ever given
me one of these before.” At that moment, the real woman stopped talking and
looked over her shoulder, in the same direction where I was seeing the ghost
shape. She took a deep breath and seemed confused for a bit, then she smiled at
me and said, “Well, lets find out how can I help you”.
“The morning after I received The Healing Gift on the list, I was out walking
and saw a woman shouting and screaming at her dog in the park. For some reason I
wondered if I could give a gift to the poor dog and I thought of a big red
ribbon, like a gift bow. I send it to the dog and then went on to say hello to
the woman. She was very angry at first but calmed down, and then told me that
dog had been “an unwanted gift”. I nearly burst out into tears on the spot.”
“One of my best and oldest friends is dying. I lay in bed and couldn’t sleep
for tears although I kept telling myself it was all for the best and that he was
going home. I was exhausted and at 3am, I called up an image of my friend and
began to give him all sorts of gifts, dozens of them, until he smiled and
stopped me and gave me a gift instead – it was a big white Indian blanket with
symbols painted on it which he wrapped about me. I don’t know what happened or
how but I felt really warm all of a sudden. I stopped crying and went to sleep.
Thinking about it now, I think The Healing Gift was always about me.”
Working with real energy to heal, solve problems, or even just to have fun
with finding out what your mind of energy can do for you, is both one of the
most ancient human endeavours as well as being now at the absolute cutting edge
of mind-body technologies.
This is a vastly under-rated, underestimated and underexplored domain of
virtually limitless potential that is easy to access and comes naturally to most
people.
If you would like to learn more about this amazing undiscovered country, we
recommend to read Silvia Hartmann’s “Project
Sanctuary”
Healing Gift |
How To Give The Gift Of Healing |
Healing Relationships |
Self Healing |
World Healing |
Mirror Healing |
Healing Strangers |
Healing Animals |
Healing Spirits |
Healing Gift Story |
Healing Gift Information
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